Babies born~February 16th-28th 2009 #13

im a bad buddy :( sorry been around but not really posting!
dont have the energy tbh :redface: would help if i ate properly during the day.. i might actually have some!

girls are ok, its constant illness here, seriously were lucky to go a week with out something in this house! over it!

OP i hope things are gettng better with DD, its a hard age, they dont understand etc... tanties....fun NOT!
shell DD hits too.... she gives me greasies at the same time oh and pouts :lol: its actually cute!
kaz sleep school...... you nervous? how are things currently?
malyna how you my dear?
lilma DD loves the fork too, is also quiet good at it
ali grrr to losing your post!

Girls thanks for your suggestions and sympathies... So nice to know I'm not alone!!

I walk away from the tantrums and I frequently do... It's the hitting and biting I can't stand.

I do the gentle thing with DD with X and she is getting so much better with him... but with DH and me, and with some of the other kids at our playgroups she is way too rough and hits and even bites.

I have turned into the mother of the terrible kid at Playgroup who terrorizes the other kids... :(

I know it is probably just a phase but I really wish it was over...

Lilima - we have tried giving
DD her own knife and fork (plastic) but she just smashes them into her food.

Fun fun fun...

Hey ladies, where is everyone? Hope everyone is well...

We aren't doing so well ATM - DS cluster feeds from about 6 or 7pm thru til midnight or thereabouts... Totally normal behaviour for his age I know, but so hard when DD is waking frequently, or in the case of last night, she only really slept from 2am - 6am... The rest of the night she was coughing and crying :(

Poor love is so miserable... Breaks my heart... I know she'll get better soon but it's just tough with DS as well...

Kaz - thinking of you this week... I think it was this week you were at sleep school?

Olive, how are your lovelies? Any reprieve from the illnesses??

Shell - can't remember what was going on in your world sorry hun :redface:

How's everyone else going??

Alex chucks good tanties - he throws his face on the floor and then does a body wave - he's learnt that it hurts to faceplant the ground, so he doens't do them that often. Mostly he chucks them when he can't see what I'm doing, so I spend a lot of my dinner time, chopping stuff up on the floor, or sitting him in the highchair showing him every stage of what I cook.

He threw a tantrum in the pool last week - faceplant inthe water. his little face was priceless - a baby version of WTF. Have decided to stop taking him to swim classes - he doesn't enjoy it, spends all of his time sitting on my hip, not joining in on the activities. I'll try him later.

If he's cracking it for something, I don't give it to him, ignore him. i don't have the sharing problem - he gives things to everyone - but that's today.
Sorry selfish post.

Hi lovely ladies
So glad to here Miss A isn't the only on 'spitting it'...fists in the mouth...face going red...feet stamping...then thrashing on the ground...'sigh'....they do grow out of this right? Can't believe MissT is 11 weeks tomorrow...it's all a big BLUR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So thankful though...feeding around 8.30pm then 3am then 7am so getting some sleep...but still totally stuffed...sorry for no persies...reading and feeling for everyone with all going on...just so so stuffed! Ex

Ellie - definitely not the only one throwing tanties!!! DD tends to go straight for the floor, kicking and screaming. Lovely! 11wks?? Wow that has gone so fast! That will be me soon, saying the exact same thing! Christmas will be here before we know it... I am hanging for when DS feeds 8.30, 3, 7... that'd be awesome. ATM we are getting cluster feeds from 6pm-10,11,12am... then 2-3hrly feeds til morning. Sigh! It'll get better, I know.

Malyna - we ignore as well, but that sucks when you are out somewhere. People think you're a horrible parent!

Hope everyone else is going well!

I've written my new birth story... its long, but hey, you guys know that's how I roll!
https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...-baby-boy.html

You are so not the only one with a tanty child! Miss J arches her back and then does a sort of porpoise kick (am thinking butterfly might be her swimming stroke!) unrt til I put her down and she rolls around on the floor screaming. Det saw her start to crack it at the catch up the other day :lol: Most of the time it happens when she wants to do what her big sister is doing but can't or isn't able to. She gets so frustrated.

I have been a bad Baby buddy as well. :redface:

Have been reading and catching up on everything though.

OP & Ellie- Big :hug: to you both. It sounds so exhausting but I know both of you are doing a great job and you are such good mummas.

Kaz- Have been thinking of you . Hope sleep school is going well. Just remember that one day you will be struggling to get him out of bed at midday! LOL!

Shell- Are you feeling better?

Heaven- How is pregnancy going? cant wait for you to come down to Sydney and catch up.

Olive- Big :hug: to you. the fam has been so sick and I know how tiring and frustrating (not to mention expensive). I hope you are all well and can get rid of the germs soon

Malyna- You sound busy with the book but it must be quite exciting to know its almost done.

Holly- Are you around? I hope you and L are doing wel.

Tracey- How are you going? Have been thinking of you lots.

OP- Loved your birth story. I always remember you saying how much you loved reading them and you wrote such a fabulous one.

Nai- Miss J sounds like DD. I try to ignore most of it but it is so embarrassing when she does it when weare out. In fact she is so cheeky and deliberatly doesnt listen to what I say and thinks running away from me is a game. :o

Lilima- I have noticed DD getting better with a fork as well. She loves to randomly stab her food with it though.

AFM- work is busy busy busy. Enjoying the new job role but it is ALOT of work. On my work days I am up until at least 2am and then the alarm goes off at 6am and DD is at childcare by 7am and not picked up until 5:30pm. Whoever in th world said that teachers work 9-3pm lied! LOL! I do make sure on my days off I do NO WORK AT ALL (unless its Sunday night preparation).

I have 5 weeks until my holiday which is very exciting. Still going well on the weight loss. Have been trying on my old cossies (even bikinis) and they are starting to look okay. Still havelots to do in 5 weeks though.

DD LOVES LOVES LOVES play school at the moment. We ahve a dvd of it and it has been known to go on at midnight if she wakes just so she will lie in bed next to us. She is saying a few more words now. Speech still not great but I can see some progress. We are off to the zoo tomorrow. One of the perks of being Assistant Principal was that becasue I was the one to organise year 2's excursion to the zoo, I was given complimentry visit passes for 4 people (teachers) but DP and my gf who I job share with and her DP are going with the girls. tickets are normally $43 each so we are saving $170 which is fantastic. Just hoping its not raining and the DD behaves.

Better go, off to a baby shower today.

Enjoy the weekend.

Am about to copy this before I send it, just in case ;)

sorry havent read just in for a whinge, wishing mu child would just go to slee, DH is working and ive been trying to get her to sleep since midday

olive - :hug: I had a day like that on Monday. No sleep between 8am and 4pm and I was sick and it was a nightmare. I hope DD went down for you shortly after you made that post.

Malyna - Good on you! :clap: Come in here to chat anytime.

Bella - Great to hear how you're going. Your job sounds full on! Yay on the weightloss milestone too. you must feel (and look) amazing.

OP - Mr. X is gorgeous hun. What a cutie. I laughed at the 3 month old comment too :) Sounds like you're doing a great job juggling two as well. Thanks for the link to your birth story - will be off to read it after posting this.

:hello: to everyone else!!

With the tanties, we are getting them as well. Have been for a little while and they seem to be getting worse! I have tried talking calmly, trying to help (if he can't do something he wants to), ignoring him and just waiting for it to be over. I have found that getting on with something else or playing by myself with his toys work the fastest in snapping him out of it. I was starting to worry about what it might mean for his personality/termperament that he does this so young but hearing that everyone elses kids are doing the same thing is reassuring. I have worked out for DS that his 'bad' behaviour is much more likely if he's tired or unwell. And Lilima, I was thinking just yesterday that by the time number two comes along and does this it will be old hat and also that part of the problem with the dynamic with DS is that I do have time to give the issue some attention etc now but that will change and I've decided that he definitely needs to have siblings because some of his tanties are happening when I'm talking to someone else and not to or about him (even if he's on my lap at the time!!!!). But don't get too excited everyone, we're not TTC just yet.

RE: sleep school - it's not for a couple of weeks yet. I am kind of looking forward to seeing what they think of DS and also getting their tips for handling his demanding behaviour and tanties etc during the day. Sleep has been pretty rough at times but last night was ok. In the past week to 10 days we've had gastro twice and he's cutting three molars which are causing no end of grief for him. Fingers crossed I don't get the gastro a second time too (will be due to strike tomorrow if last week is anything to go by).

Take care everyone. Hope you're having a lovely relaxing weekend. xx

Time for a new thread everyone :)