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Danek, I'm sorry you didn't get some answers :hug: Your DH may just need a little bit more time to grieve until he is ready to try again. Men show their emotions differently to us and he may be scared of trying again and not strong enough to say it out loud. Keep talking, tell each other what you are feeling and thinking and you will get through this together :hug:
Both of you have been through so much. I totally understand where DH is coming from. Give him a bit of time. He'll get there.
Sorry you got no answers.
I could never get my head around what you're going through. I'm sorry but all i have to offer you at the moment are warm cuddles.:hug::hug:
Danek, I'm so sorry you are going through this.
It was the most hurtful time I have ever experienced after my daughter died. It just hurts and hurts. I hope you have compassionate and caring family and friends to look after you.
Love Lynnette x
Danek, Im so sorry you havent got any answers from your appointment :hug: I can only imagine how hard it is for you to hear DH say he isnt quite ready, especially understanding from a mother's point of view that feeling of desperation to try again. Give him some time and talk to him about your feelings and hopefully he will change him mind in due course.
Look after yourself, of course you are feeling a bit worse for wear at the moment. Healing is a long process and unfortunately sometimes feels like you take one step forward and two steps backward. Eventually you feel like your getting ahead, but give yourself the time you need.
Take care, Mel :hugs:
Danek, I'm so very sorry to hear of baby Alexander's passing. Please know I'm thinking of you & your family at this very sad time. My little son was also born sleeping but at 22 weeks in Jan this yr and I'm still grieving. Take care hun xx
Well. I spoke again to an obstetrician at the hospital who has since reviewed our case with a number of other Doctors.
Although they cannot definitely say, they believe that the most likely cause for Alexander's death was a placental abruption. It is all very confronting being told this. Is it better to have a cause? It doesn't change what has happened.
We have been told that extra monitoring and scans will be available for any future pregnancies. I may be able to have a vaginal birth again, which I thought I wouldn't be able to do as I have had a caesarean for my first born and a VBAC for Alex. So I guess there is some relief in this.
We picked up Alex's hand and foot print mould yesterday. It is lovely. It is proudly hanging in the hallway and we are getting some big brother hand prints for my 2 year old to hang along side. We have so few things to remember Alex by so this is very special to us.
I hope you are all well! Take Care
Danek
I just wanted to drop off a :hug:
Danek I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
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im so sorry for your loss and i guess with some sort of an answer may bring some sort of closure... doesnt make the greiving any easier though. that will be lovely to have your first sons moulds hanging alongside little Alex's