I am so sorry Keike. As others have said, this is NOT your fault. Pleas rest and be kind to yourself :comfort:
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I am so sorry Keike. As others have said, this is NOT your fault. Pleas rest and be kind to yourself :comfort:
so sorry Keike :hug:
:cry: so sorry. :comfort: it is NOT you fault....
So sorry Keike :hug:
:comfort: Not your fault hunni and you can't think like that. Take care and be good to yourself.
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Oh Keike, nothing but lots of big warm hugs and a bucket full of love ~ please don't place any blame on yourself :hug: :hug: :hug: xxoo
no no no no no no no. NOT your fault. Half the children in the world wouldn't have been born if a few glasses of wine got in the way.
Is it time to request some tests to see why your angels aren't sticking sweetie? :hug:
:crying: oh honey!! :hug: :hug: :hug:
I am with Lulu on that one....:
Is it time to request some tests to see why your angels aren't sticking sweetie?
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Yes, pulling my finger out and getting all the blood tests from the FS next week - hafta be booked so I can't just do it now. They're not testing for what I think it is, so I'll put it on my 'list of things to ask the FS' when I go back next year.
I'm also seeing my naturopath tonight - already had the appointment, which was handy. I know some of the medications I'm taking say 'not for use in pregnancy' so I'd like to find ones that are safer. I've been somewhat lax in my diet recently, so this is a horrible kick in the bum for me - time to get back into eating right and exercising.
Thank you all so much for your support. I was somewhat hysteric this morning, and you all helped calm me down enough to sleep, which provided further comfort. I'm 'blogging it out' at the moment, and about to take some more painkillers. You all rock :grouphug:
Keike, please, please, please, please STOP blaming yourself. Please, it's tearing me up inside & I can only imagine what it's doing to you.
Yes, go to the GP, just for peace of mind. But honey, please don't blame yourself.
I wish I could express something remotely fruitful to make you feel better - but words escape me. I just offer you my cyber shoulder to cry on. xx
All the cyber hugs and loving words help more than you know :grouphug: It's gonna take me a week to rep you all, but I'll get there, thank you all SO much :grouphug::
Keike, I just saw your post. I'm desperately sorry for you. :hug: :hug: :hug:
I hope the FS has some answers for you.
:hug: xx
So sorry hun. xoxoxoxo
oh no, keike - this is so totally not your fault in any which way. mega :hug:
can't imagine what you're going through atm ... just sending you lots of love xoxo
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Please dont blame yourself hun :( Im so sorry :(
Oh Keike :hug:
Hun, please be gentle with yourself, this is in NO WAY your fault, it 100% sucks, but you did NOT cause this.
xx
so sorry for your loss darl.
Time to just up and down until you get all the tests possible :hug:
Keike, I'm so sorry. I've had a few computer issues lately, they are fixed now but I feel awful getting back to read this news.
Nothing you have have done or did not do will have changed this. Definitely time to get some testing done, and I'm here to chat any time.
:hug: Take care.
:hug: Keike I'm so sorry
:hug: I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I know it's important to get answers about why this is happening but please don't blame yourself, you didn't make this happen with a bit of wine.
Went to the naturopath last night, she's a family friend so she gave me a hug and had a bit of a cry with me. She suggested that we use contraception for a while - nothing chemical, just condoms - to give my body a chance to heal properly and get built up. She's given me Chaste tree tablets to take regularly, 3 a day for the next couple of weeks and then down to 2. She said that she knows it's no comfort, but I don't seem to have much of a problem falling pregnant. The chaste tree is designed to build up my progesterone levels, and I'm already on Menstrocare to regulate my periods, so between the two of them I should get a 'nice clean baby oven for next year' :)
I've been holding out hope for one of those 'fluke babies' - y'know, the mythical 'just stop thinking about it and it'll happen!', but I'm doing more damage that way. It's not gonna happen by accident, I'm gonna hafta make it happen. Hopefully this is the last time I ever start a thread in this section :cryinglaugh:
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:hug: you're such a wonderful soul. :hug:
Huge, big, gigantic, enormous :hug:
Exactly what i wanted to say!:
Although it's not a quick fix there's lots of hope and possibility in your last post Keike, so glad to hear that :hug:
Sounds like you have a good wee plan babe, :hug: