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tryagain, I am so sorry for your loss. This is my first post to the board, but I've found comfort in reading all of the positive stories and encouragement. My loss is also very recent (8/3, missed m/c at 6 wks, d&c at 10 wks) and I am slowly going through all of the stages of grief. This was going to be the first grandchild for both families, so I feel that burden as well (I know, irrational).
I've decided that convincing myself that it wasn't my fault (with major resistance) will help me stay positive when we TTC in a couple of months. My dr. told me to wait 3 cycles to TTC, but I've seen a lot of info to the contrary. I guess waiting will help emotionally- ups and downs on a daily basis. I had a bad day yesterday, as there was a baby shower at work. I feel like everyone around me is prego.
I send my hugs and prayers to you for inner-peace and baby dust. Happy anniversary- thank goodness for the DHs. I finally realize the "for better or for worse" part...
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I am sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy ended in m/c at 10 wks. Needless to say,as you know, it was devestating. I went on to have three big healthy babies, as many other women do and I am sure you will too.
be gentle to yourself, I'm sure you didnt do anything wrong.
xxx
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I just read your post. I am so sorry. I lost a baby at 13 weeks and didn't find out until my 18 week ultrasound and I asked myself and my midwife the same type of questions. But please know it's nothing you did. Take care and I'm thinking of you.
