Yesterday..............

so sorry for your loss :hug:

let your sisters take care of you that's what they are there for. Concentrate on yourself, take this time out and do what you need to to heal

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I'm so very sorry for your loss Joanne, the early days are so very hard to get through :(

So glad that you have your sisters to take care of you :hug:

So sorry for your loss :hug:

thanks for the kind messages ladies they mean alot as do all the hugs

Joanne, I am so sory for your loss of your beautiful Everson :hug: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, fly free little one.
You are so lucky to have such beautiful sisters that care about you so much.

Big hugs sweetie.

Beata x

My best wishes to you and your DF... May you get the support you need to recover. :hug:

So sorry to hear of your loss Bonham... look after yourself :comfort:

Thanks for the lovely messages ladies

Just wanted to let you lovely ladies know that i have my 2 week check-up/follow-up with my dr tomorrow at 12.30pm from my D&C 2 weeks ago. My sisters have come from Sydney as they didnt want me going alone as Chris is away working in Canberra.

Thinking of you today Joanne, I hope your doc. appointment goes well. How beautiful for your sisters to come down to be with you, you are a very lucky and loved girl. Look after yourself hun :hug:

B x

Much appreciated Beata xox :hug:

so sorry for your loss

much appreciated Mum2Romone :hug:

Thanks very much for the support ladies, my sisters are great and i'm very lucky & thankful for them.

Dr appt went well although when we walked into his office he said "so your 14weeks are you" i said "well no i'm not but i would have been you did my D&C 2 weeks ago", he was so applogetic and said no-one had updated my file which he promptly did. He talked over what happened & why and made sure i understood, he said they couldnt do the pap smear while they did the procedure as there wasnt enough to collect a sample (Trini please explain if you know) so he made a note in my file for me to come back in 3-4months to have a pap smear done.

He asked me if i wanted any contraception and i declined and said there wasnt much point when were going to start TTC as soon as we both feel ready/comfortable plus Chris is away during the week so we dont hardly spend any time together.

And he told me that we can start TTC whenever we want to, the wait 1 cycle is just a precaution. He also told me to keep taking/start taking again the Blackmores pg & bfing tablets as my body will store whatever it doesnt need and then use it when its needed.

He asked me how i was feeling and coping and i said i thought i was coping rather well considering what i've been through and that i have Sophie to keep me occupied and that i try not to think about it too much otherwise i get upset.

I got him to check my foot and he said it was healing well and that i should give it some air and put breath-able patches on it. And that i can get it wet but i'm to change the patch once i've dried my leg and gave me a script for antibiotics to prevent infection. He also got the sister on duty to change the dressing and there was still a little blood on the wound and she said "whats that red stuff?" and i was like umm looks like blood to me.............very strange.

And i think thats everything.

Oh Hun. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve. I'm glad that you will have family around to support you during this time. :hug: xx

much appreciated **Sunshine**

I am sorry to hear your Dr didn't have the updated information :comfort:

I am glad that you have a wonderful support network around you right now, Cyber and IRL, it is lovely that you have you family with you at this difficult time, there is nothing like a real warm hug.

:o about the "red stuff being blood?" hmmm...

Take care
xxoo

Thanks Beema :hug:

I felt like asking her what she thought the red stuff was when it clearly looked like blood PMSL, hopefully next time i have to see the sister at the dr's i'll get to see someone else.

Maybe you should have said you squirted some tomato sauce on it just for fun :lol:

HAHA me & TK1999 were just looking at each other wondering what she thought it was.

Bonham, I'm so sorry you lost your precious baby. Big hugs and love. Glad that you have family near you and such lovely support. :hug: :hug:

I agree, very strange for the sister-in-charge to not know what blood looks like! No wonder you were perplexed... Reminds me of that show that used to be on the ABC that was about a doctor who used to faint at the sight of blood, :p.

Kerry

Kerry: thankyou for your condolences, love & hugs they are much appreciated :hug: I too am glad i have great support both on the forum & IRL.

The sister was looking at my foot rather intently like she was seriously trying to work out what the red stuff was. Oh well she learnt something new today LOL

Sorry for your lose but very happy to hear you have people around you to help you through this.

That moment you find out is horrid! You count down to your first scan, everyone is excited then the guy doing it seems to be paying more attention and going over things again and again much more than you remember. I knew something was wrong at that point and he said he needed to get someone else in to have a look. So the girl that came in broke the news to us but it didn’t make it any better.

I hope your D&C went well. They are awful but at least you know when it’s going to happen and can start ttc again soon.

Glad to hear everything went ok for you yesterday and you are now able to move forward :hug:

Thanks Elocin :hug:

Hi Bonham,
Glad to hear that things are settling down for you - it must have been a weight off having family around. I hope you get your bfp really, really soon!

Unlike you, we have decided not to continue ttc - my 2 eldest kids turning 14 & 15 this week sort of bought it home that I like not having to cart a whole tonne of stuff whenever we go out and being able to leave them for time out on our own. I'm actually going to have the Mirena put in just before Xmas - can't wait! I'm finding that I can read through all the posts in our old group, it doesn't upset me anymore, in fact, when I'm at the shops and there are small kids screaming, I'm thankful I wont have to go through it again!

Best of luck to you in your journey, take care

L xxx

Hi Loubee, thankyou it was great to have my sisters being there for me, i'd do the same for them in hearbeat.
I'm sorry to hear you wont be TTC again, all the best with the Mirena, i've been in our old group a few times but only to update them on whats going on with me atm it still hurts to read whats going on with them all. You need to do what's best for you & your family.

DF & I are going to have fun DTD for a few months and then we'll hop back on the TTC train unless a whoopsie happens between now and then. Thankyou for your best wishes for our TTC journey.

Hope to see you around BB :D