10 Things That Happen When You’re Potty Training

10 Things That Happen When You're Potty Training

Potty training is not for the faint-hearted. But it really has to be done.

After all, you can’t leave your kid in nappies for life.

At the very least, it would ruin her future wedding day. Wedding dresses are not designed with adult nappies in mind.

So, for that reason alone, potty training needs to happen. Unfortunately, as the parent, you’re responsible for doing it.

10 Things That Happen When You’re Potty Training

You should expect to get poo under your fingernails, to spill the contents of a full nappy on your sock, and to spend a lot of time talking about bodily functions.

All kids are different. Some (everyone else’s) will take to potty training almost immediately. Heck, they’ll potty train themselves without you even noticing.

Others (meaning yours) will finally be dragged out of nappies, kicking and screaming, just in time to blow out the candles on their tenth birthday cake.

Did you know everybody else’s kids were way better at potty training than yours? Oh, you will – just wait for people to start telling you.

Here are 10 things that happen when you’re potty training.

Warning: if you haven’t started potty training yet, this article might put you off. You still have to do it, though, so proceed with caution (and a sense of humour). 

#1: You Will Get Really Excited About Poop

Remember the overwhelming joy of that first postpartum poop? How excited you were to have got it out the way, and how pleased for you the midwives were? Yeah, well this is like that, but better.

This time you get to experience the unbridled joy of celebrating a poop but without the public shame and humiliation of that poop being yours.

The day you see a poop in the potty will be the best day of your life. Way better than your wedding day, and definitely better than the day you found a poop on the rug.

#2: Your Flirt Game Won’t Be Good

Nothing kills romance faster than potty training. When you’ve spent all day celebrating bodily functions, it can be hard to rein it in and resume more socially acceptable chatter in the evening.

Not many people want to sit down to dinner and hear all about how you got a poop stain out of the carpet, or how many pees went in the potty (Tip: now might not be a great time to throw a dinner party).

In fact, cancel all of your evening plans until potty training is done because nobody wants to hear about your kid’s bodily functions. Ok, maybe your partner does, but even then, probably not when he’s tucking into his casserole.

#3: You Will Catch A Poop In Your Bare Hands

This is pretty basic, but it’s important to remember it’s way better to clean poop off the floor than it is to clean it from your hands.

Poop on the floor means you can wear gloves and use cleaners and get rid of the smell.

If the poop is in your hands, the smell will linger (at least in your mind). You’ll also have to eat with that hand and all food will taste like poop (at least that’s what your brain will tell you).

Do not catch poop in your hands. It doesn’t matter how many times you read that, you’ll still do it. It’s some weird parenting instinct that forces you to catch it even though it’s gross and you don’t want to.

You’ll catch that hot little turd in your hand and then you’ll heave and scream and want to die, all at the same time.

And then you will realise there are lots of closed doors on the way to the bathroom and you can’t open any of them because you have a serious case of poop-hand. Good luck with your life.

#4: Your Kid Will Wet Your Bed

Yes, you read that right. Not her bed, your bed. Your bed. The one you sleep in. The one with all those nice cushions and throws. It’s going to smell like pee. She won’t wet her bed, but will instead save her giant wee for when she creeps into your bed at night.

Not on any old night, but on the night you have just changed your bedding, so your bed is as luxurious as it can be. She’ll snuggle up to you, and wrap her little leg around yours, Lovely, you’ll think, as you plant a kiss gently on her forehead.

Then you’ll feel your leg get warm. Warm and wet. And there’ll be no clean bedding. You’ll have to sleep on a towel in a room that smells strongly of urine. Happy potty training!

#5: You Will Worry Your Kid Will Be In Nappies Forever

Did you know you were out of nappies by 15 months? And your cousin’s kid has been out of nappies since he turned one? And your next door neighbour’s baby politely declined the hospital-issue nappies straight after his birth and opted to use a potty instead?

Your kid, on the other hand, seems to be peeing all over the floor deliberately, and saving the biggest logs for when she’s wearing knickers.

Late at night, when you’re alone, you secretly weep into your urine-soaked pillow because you’re so worried she is un-potty-trainable. You’ll have to get her wedding dress specially made to allow for her adult nappy, and how much will that cost?

#6: You Will Know Where All The Toilets Are

When you’re out with a kid who is wearing knickers for the first time, you have to be on it when it comes to toilet locations.

Luckily, potty-training parents have a built-in radar that tells them exactly where the nearest toilet is.

As soon as you arrive somewhere new, you’ll work out where the toilets are and how quickly you’ll need to run towards them in the three seconds warning your kids give before they pee all over themselves.

#7: Your Kid Will Ruin Everything By Trying To Help

Your kid will do lots of things to help out during potty training and, without exception, it will just make life harder.

A toddler passing you a full potty is not helpful. Most of the wee ends up on the floor or on her.

A toddler trying to wipe her own butt is not helpful. Even if she manages to get the paper in the right place, the poo will end up smeared across her butt cheeks and there is very little chance of the dirty toilet paper ending up in the toilet.

#8: Your First Trips Out Will Be Tense

There is nothing more terrifying than a small child wearing underwear out of the house for the first time. Even if you only pop to the corner shop, the whole time you will be scared of an unexpected accident.

If you travel further afield, the fear will be debilitating. You will spend the entire time saying, on a repetitive loop, “Do you need a wee? Do you need a poo? Shall we go to the toilet?”

You will probably spend most of the time you’re out in the toilet – even though your kid doesn’t need it – because the fear of an accident will be overwhelming.

#9: The Sneaky Poop

This happens to everyone. Some day soon, you’ll be out and about with your newly potty-trained child, and she will need to pee. You’ll probably be outdoors, in a park or the woods, and there will be no toilets nearby.

You will, wisely, ask if it’s just a wee and your child will bare-facedly lie to you, and say “Yes, it is”, before curling out the biggest turd you’ve ever seen. On the floor. By your foot. In nature. You will, of course, have no nappy bags or baby wipes and will have no idea of what to do with the poo.

#10: You Will Long For The Days Before Potty Training

Remember when you could just pick your kid up and head out the door? Remember when long car journeys were no problem and you didn’t constantly have to track where the nearest toilet was? Ah, life was good then.

Now, life is a constant high-pressure search for a toilet, especially when you have somewhere to be or a bus to catch. You’ll be late all the time, and will have to stop the car repeatedly for roadside wees.

Recommended Reading:

  • 75


Fiona Peacock is a writer, researcher and lover of all things to do with pregnancy, birth and motherhood (apart from the lack of sleep). She is a home birth advocate, passionate about gentle parenting and is also really tired.

No comments have been made yet.

Leave a Reply

Please note: in order to prevent spam and inappropriate language, all comments are moderated before they appear. We appreciate your patience awaiting approval. BellyBelly receives many comments every day, and we are unable to approve them all as soon as they are posted.

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

loaded font roboto