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thread: What do you think is right?

  1. #19
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    brisbane
    3,975

    You won them right...you do what you want wiht them...sell them on ebay if you like lol! I think its rude for them to assume you would be sharing wiht them anyway!
    Or as maz said just blame DH works everytime


  2. #20
    BellyBelly Member
    Add kawazuki on Facebook

    Dec 2008
    Paradise. QLD
    2,288

    id say its rude what your friend did.
    esp since the "girls" arent your true friends.

    id be taking DH both times aswell
    you won, woudl she take you if she won them?

    we are a bit liek you dont get to go out much together so we jump at any chance we get

  3. #21
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2006
    Queensland
    2,039

    Well did you pay for your ticket into the lucky door prize? If she paid for it I would share one et of the tickets and if you paid it its your prize and yesw I think it is rude to presume you would share them. If you were my friend i might suggested we go out to se it with the girls but I would expect you to use your free ticket and the rest to pay!

    Maybe just add on there something like can't believe I have only been to the movies once since high school and dh and I have only been out by ourselves 3 times in x years and one of those times was driving to the hospital when I was in labour! So excited to have won free movie tickets so we can finally go out together!!

    that way you are showing her the situation and then after that if she still thinks you should use your tickets on her thats just selfish

  4. #22
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    Add NaeNae on Facebook

    Sep 2007
    South Gippsland
    3,753

    I think that was a bit rude of her to say that. You don't need to explain or justify anything to her I think your FB response was great too BTW.

    Nae x

  5. #23
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    Nup I'm with the ithers....but I wouldn't mention it again on facebook and just 'forget' about her comments....oops

  6. #24
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Cocooned in the love of my family!
    1,259

    I don't know your friend and the way she thinks but maybe she just thought she would be a little bit cheeky and put it out there to use the passes (you know, the old "if you don't ask you don't get" thing) and thought maybe the movie would not be something you would see with DH.

    And personally, if I made a comment like that on FB (which I wouldn't because it just isn't my style) I would be quite accepting of your answer and think it was meant nicely, and I would move on and not give it another thought.

    So, don't feel guilty, they are your passes to use as you see fit. Lucky winner!!

  7. #25
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Perth
    3,299

    I agree, the passes are yours to use as you wish so use them for your dates with DH! Just tell your friend that you were actually expecting her to babysit your kids for you while you and DH go to the movies

  8. #26
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Sydney
    7,896

    Hope you have two lovely nights out with your DH. I'd post a message on FB asking your 'friend' if she'd like to babysit this weekend.

  9. #27
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Victoria
    7,260

    Enjoy your dates!!

    DH just got sent 2 free movie passes - noway in hell anyone else is getting them! lol

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