we'd just got used to the idea then it was all ova in hours i really wanted it i dnt no how my partner feels all i no is it hurts him too which is wat i forget about, sumtimes it jus feels like it only happened to me. i was 8 week wen it died i dint fin out till i was about 11- 13 week i think, its jus depressing to think id carrried him for another few weeks, but we had only found out about im 4 weeks ago and had jus got used to him bein inside n planning for him n making sure i was lookin after im. id been bleeding for 4 weeks on n off , i went to the doctor at first she sed it was normal i was so gutted wen they told me ther was no heartbeat
Last edited by teddy123; December 22nd, 2009 at 09:02 AM.
it is the worst feeling. empty is such a good way to describe it. you're not alone, but i know it can feel that way. you and your partner will both grieve your loss differently, but try to touch base with each other. it would be sad to lose your connection with each other.
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