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thread: very upset...but is there any hope?

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    Jun 2009
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    very upset...but is there any hope?

    Had spotting last night but by morning had stopped. However had scheduled appt with Dr this morning anyway. Anyways he sent me off for ultrasound- and it wasn't good instead of measuring 8weeks I only measured 5weeks4days- I was devastated. Anyways the u/s lady seen a flicker, so did I but she said if it was the heartbeat it was too slow. Also the yolk sac was way too big nearly taking up the whole space of the gestational sac and was way to big compared to the fetal pole(hate that word, it's a baby not a pole!), she said it's like the yolk sac has kept growing but the baby has not. And as for the spotting- she said that the gestational sac has come away a tiny bit from the uterus and there is a haemorrhage there.

    So am I kidding myself holding some hope unto the fact that baby might be just slower then others, or do I have to face facts and come to terms that this is going to end in another miscarriage?

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    Jun 2008
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    I'm so sorry em, it doesn't sound positive. Can you get a 2nd opinion?

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    Jul 2009
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    Oh hunni, im so sorry

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    Mar 2008
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    i really dont know em...for me, where there's life there's hope, but in all honesty it does seem that the bubba is quite behind for dates.



    what have they said to you? will you do another repeat scan or BTs?

    that that bubba keeps growing big and strong xx

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    oh em i really dont know either hun but know were here holding your hand i truely hope all works out for you hunny

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    so sorry

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    Nov 2007
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    Em I'm not sure..hopefully someone can give you some advice I can just offer a hug

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    Jun 2009
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    Em,
    Unfortunately I can't offer any advice... all I can do is be here for you. I that your baby is strong and healthy.

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    Hi Em,
    Sorry I can't offer magical words, but you're in my thoughts and prayers tonight for good news. kaz

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    Em, massive hugs.....we are all here for you and hope for the very best for you and your little bubsicle xo

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    Aww Hun big warm squishy

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    Oh sweety big hugs darling

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    Feb 2007
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    So sorry Hoping bub hangs in there....

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    Em, I really feel for you. I'm so sorry that things aren't looking good for your baby. Sending you lots of hugs
    Kerry
    Always in my heart 15-10-06, 6w4d and 30-04-07, 11w3d

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    I'm so sorry Em. Wish you had better news xx

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    Re: very upset...but is there any hope?

    so sorry ur going thru this em, I hope there is a happily ever after for u very very soon xoxo

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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