So on friday were i had my d and c is bury all the lost angels mine was 5 and a half weekds old. My b/f has vistation with his children this weekend and is refusing to go on friday becouse he does not consider it a baby becouse in his words only five and a half week. If i dont go with him then he will be mad at me and sleep around he will be 4 hours away i need him there for support am i am horrible person for wanting to go?
Aww hun i am so sorry for your loss, a baby is a baby in your heart no matter what age, born or unborn... i hope he can see that this is hurting you and be there for support.
I don't think it's wrong of you to want to go with him but i am more worried that you KNOW that if you don't go he will get mad and 'sleep around' this is not on, that is not fair on you AT ALL.
I hope everything is ok and you can get through this time, i would be seriously looking at things though, he doesn't seem to be all the supportive or caring at the moment.
Hope your ok, do what YOU need to do to grieve for your bubba.
thank you so much have made me feel better, i know if i dont go i will be kicking mself in the bum for the rest of my life. Not all people get a chance to do this.
So sorry for your loss . For now you need to think of yourself, your BF should be supporting you at the moment but you need to do this for you, to help you heal and say goodbye to your angel.
i dont know what to do
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. For now you need to think of yourself, your BF should be supporting you at the moment but you need to do this for you, to help you heal and say goodbye to your angel. 
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