thread: Shattered Heart, Shattered Hope.

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    1

    Shattered Heart, Shattered Hope.

    Hi everyone,

    I'm new and I'm really devastated at the moment. I spoke to my GP and he told me I would probably never conceive because I am 39 1/2, I am probably not cycling regularly and not ovulating every month and even if I did I would MC due to diabetes!

    I didn't tell him that in case he hadn't noticed since I have gone from 130kg to now 114kg, lately I am cycling every 30 days! I have been on Metformin for my diabetes for years, so I can't see any reason why I 'wouldn't' be!

    If you have any thought on this girls I'd love to know what you think because i feel shattered.

    Thanks Girls

    Jojie
    Last edited by jojie; April 30th, 2010 at 05:29 PM. : missing info

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    In a cloud of madness.
    4,053

    big hun.
    I don't know too much about that kinda stuff. I have PCOS and was having metformin too.
    I'm sure there will be girls with much more info than I have. All I can say is don't lose hope... stranger things have happened.
    Sending you loads of xx

  3. #3

    Jan 2008
    3,107

    Oh honey

    I dont have PCOS but I am finding it hard to TTC. I think you need to get a second opinion and be referred to a specialist. Did this dr do any bloods? progesterone? etc

    babe there are so many lovely ladies here that can give you so much information.

    Welcome to BB

    Koby xox

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    3

    If I was you I would be asking for a referal to a FS and see what they have to say. I have just been diagnosed with PCOS, Endo and a septate uterus and feel like it is never going to happen for us. I am 31 and DH is 42 we have a referal to a FS on the 24th June to see where we can go from here. Please don't lose hope

  5. #5

    Nov 2007
    Earth
    4,434

    Darl, that was horrible to hear I would seriously get a second opinion, because that doc sounds like a real Negative Nelly! As you said, you've lost some weight which has improved your cycles, you're on Metformin which will also be helping - you may only need some slight help, such as Clomid or something similar.

    On what basis does he say you will likely miscarriage?! I think thats going a bit far personally, you really need to have a GP you are confident in that will try his hardest for you