oh where, oh where has AF gone, oh where, oh where could she be?

**skybie** · May 12th, 2010, 01:11 PM

Hating my body atm!!!
DF and I are TTC#3 and i was due for AF on monday, she was a no show

, yesterday morning did a test, BFN. bought a different brand test last night and this morning another bfn!!!
still no signs of the red devil either.

Had my pre period cramping and moodyness on sunday and monday, but nope she's not here!!!

i'm thinking that if the tests came up negative then i cant be pregnant, but where on earth is my period!!!
prior to this cycle i've had 2 normal cycles, completely on time. DTD at ovulation, knew i was ovulating because i had pains, had what i thought was implantation pains 4 days later, but obviously it wasnt.

u girls know what on earth could be going on?? the only time im ever late is when im pregnant or breastfeeding and im currently not breastfeeding and apparently not pregnant!!!

**Visitor7** · May 12th, 2010, 01:15 PM

It could be too early to tell? With DD2, my cycles were very regular but the pregnancy test kept coming up negative. It took a blood test at 5 weeks to confirm that I was pregnant. It just wouldn't show on any HPT for some reason.
Good luck.

**skybie** · May 12th, 2010, 01:17 PM

When u tested with DD1 was it the same or did it show up straight away hun?? with both the girls they showed up on the day AF was due, so this is new territory for me!! (quietly going insane with the am i or arent i!!!!)

**Visitor7** · May 12th, 2010, 01:20 PM

With DD1 and this pregnancy it showed up before my period was even due. I was 7DPO with this one, and 10dpo with DD1. It was very strange. Even throughout my pregnancy I kept forgetting I was pregnant as I had absolutely no pregnancy symptoms.

**skybie** · May 12th, 2010, 01:26 PM

how interesting!! fingers crossed thats whats happening. did they tell you why it didnt show up for so long?

**Visitor7** · May 12th, 2010, 01:30 PM

Nope, dr had no idea.

**Lily Dust** · May 12th, 2010, 02:05 PM

Go buy a digital test my love, then you wont have to squint to see if it is actually BFN or not! Implantation may have happened a day late or something though and that would cause a lower level of HCG in your blood which might cause a negative result. FWIW my last period was 3 days late after being back to normal since it returned.

Good luck Skybie, my fingers are crossed for you!!!!

**skybie** · May 12th, 2010, 02:55 PM

lol LD ur ment to tell me that it was weeks after AF was due that u got a bfp with DD!!!!! lol fingers crossed its just not showing. i think i'll be heartbroken if AF just rocks up now!

**skybie** · May 12th, 2010, 10:11 PM

still nothing

i should buy shares in pregnancy test companies i swear!!!! going MENTAL!!

**Lily Dust** · May 13th, 2010, 09:09 AM

Awww hun, BIG HUGS! It is such a crappy time waiting, wiating and waiting even more. My apologies about my last post it came out totally unlike I meant it to read lol. Still got everything crossed for ya babe.....sorry cant find where the little faces etc are!?!

**Visitor7** · May 13th, 2010, 09:10 AM

keep us updated hun.

***Beema*** · May 13th, 2010, 09:32 AM

I hope that it is just a bit too early, what tests are you using? I always go for the First Response or the Discover One Step.
I hope your shiny bright BFP isn't just waiting for you and

you're not wanted here for at least 9 months!
xxoo

**skybie** · May 13th, 2010, 09:48 AM

well still no AF and another bfn!!!!! going to wait now until next weds when i should be 5 weeks if its af's a no show till then!

LD- i was only jokin hunny, its all good.

Beema- i've used, confirm, first response and crystal clear! pmsl, seriously got issues!!! I got my bfp's with the girls using discover so will get one of those next week. until then im going to try pretend im just mid cycle and ty and put it out of my mind before i really do loose the plot!

**Stevie** · May 13th, 2010, 10:01 AM

my fingers are crossed for you sweet.
i hate the waiting game

Thinking of you my lovely xx

**Jewel** · May 13th, 2010, 10:29 AM

Crossing everything for you. The waiting game succccccccccccccks!!

xox

**skybie** · May 13th, 2010, 07:32 PM

still nothing!
feeling kinda heavy and crampy tonight, not period crampy though. more like that first week after a bfp when u poo ur pants and think AF has turned up IYKWIM?