HELP!!!! who is it??

[danita]

so i have a 14 year old foster daughter who says that there is a man following her everywhere i hear her talking to him reguarly, she says that its a he but cant tell me what he look like but she doesnt believe in ghosts only spirits?? she is really scared by this person and has started sleeping with her door open at night, she says he followes her in the car, when shes with her horse and everytime she goes to her room.

so who is it?? what do they want??

she has yelled numerous times out loud for them to go away and leave her alone but she says they wont.

how can i help her. should we burn sage or something or is the man after something specifically??
at times i can be intuitive but i sense nothing on this one??
any help would be great. thank you

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

WOW the poor thing, if she has 'spoken' to him is there anyway she can sit calmly and ask this person what they want.
She needs to be strong and assert herself, possibly telling him if he's not willing to let her know what he needs then she cannot help him and that he must leave?

I had a man at our old house who was watching us through the windows and it was seriously freaking me out, he was talking to DD1 and it was really getting to me.
So in the end i said if he wont let me know what he needs then he is too leave as he was scaring me and i didn't want him talking to my daughter.

[danita]

thanks ZF i have asked her to get more info unfortunatey her dad passed a week ago and she feels it might be him but cant tell what he looks like, is it too soon after a passing to see them??
i wonder if its him or someone else?? i dont see them at all and she says its because hes attatched to her. most male relatives on her side are still earth bound. she is certainly assertive when she is asking them to leave, she has yelled it, spoke it wrote a note and posted a status on FB. she has now asked me to help her ?????

wow you would have been scared knowing somone was talking to your DD did he leave in the end??

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

So it's only been happening since her dad passed?
That could explain why he's 'following' her, maybe he has 'unfinished' business or feels he did wrong by her?

I can't be 100% sure but you never know.

The guy watched from a distance, i didn't feel him as often and i realised he had listened to my wishes so was obviously not a 'threat' as such.

[~*Kat*~]

If its only recently that he has started to be around its may be possible that its her dad unfortunately unless she can tell u more its hard to tell.
If she is scared I would recommend burning some white sage in a smudge stick if u can get 1 and get her to do it and tell her to ask for peace and calm to be around her at all times and see if that will help.

[RhiChiChi]

Before I opened this thread and read your posts, I thought of a male 'father figure'. I hope your foster daughter can find some peace

[danita]

thanks everyone for your replies.

wow rhichichi i got goosebumps reading your reply. she is still scared.. we are going to try white sage and see how that goes.
thanks again to everyone who replied

[RhiChiChi]

I don't know why he is there but I didn't feel like he is trying to scare her. I hope the sage helps