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thread: I guess it wasn't meant to be...

  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2010
    North West Victoria, Australia
    3,003

    I guess it wasn't meant to be...

    At only 4 weeks we had to say goodbye.

    I knew I was pregnant, my boobs had exploded, was throwing up.
    I'd just become excited was about to break it to DP that we had a little surprise.

    Unfortunately, I started bleeding on Saturday, horrible cramps and all my pregnancy symptoms are gone. I've also passed a few clots.

    I don't know how to grieve for this little one. I want to. I'm devastated.

    shhh on FB.

    I feel heartbroken. I was so excited.
    Its been a hard day.

  2. #2

    Jan 2011
    Townsville, QLD, Australia
    512

    Oh hun

    I don't really know what to say but huge squishy hugs

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
    8,924

    Oh no, i'm sorry your little one couldn't stay. Look after yourself.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Sydney
    1,413

    I'm so sorry Charlotte, take care of yourself

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
    1,612

    Oh hun I'm so sorry your precious bubba couldn't stay x

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737


  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    951

    Oh hun I am really so very sorry....have you told DH? You shouldn't go through this alone xoxo

  8. #8
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    aw no

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
    3,660

    im so sorry sweetie xxx

  10. #10

    Jul 2009
    Australia
    5,102

    Oh no not you too I know nothing i say will make you feel any better. i am so sorry and please take care xoxoxo

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Sydney
    2,350

    sorry for your loss

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    1,163

    Oh no, I am so sorry to hear. It is amazing how quickly you bond to a baby and it must be a huge shock to have had to say goodbye.

    I agree with Chepie, I hope you are not going through this alone.

    Huge and take care of yourself.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    1,163

    Oh no, I am so sorry to hear. It is amazing how quickly you bond to a baby and it must be a huge shock to have had to say goodbye.

    I agree with Chepie, I hope you are not going through this alone.

    Huge and take care of yourself.

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
    965

    Im so sorry charlotte! Take care of yourself babe, and grieve lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxx

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Perth, WA
    1,245

    I am so sorry for your loss

  16. #16

    Dec 2010
    Victoria
    1,108

    oh im so sorry xxx

  17. #17
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Oh sweetie, I am so so sorry . I wish I could make it all better for you and bring your little one back. My heart is breaking for you hun, it's so bloody unfair. Thinking of you

    b xoxoxoxo

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    Registered User

    May 2008
    Melbourne
    1,838

    Charlotte. Sorry your little one couldn't stay. Thinking of you xo

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