Really weird dream.

[Charlotte91]

OK, this is going to be really weird but I can't stop thinking about it.

It was so realistic.
I feel like it was trying to tell me something because I woke up a few times and then as soon as I started drifting off the dream would come back.
Bear with me.

Basically, the dream was me and a friend (not a close friend, but still). We were obviously romantically linked. I loved the feeling of the 'falling in love' as this person and I got closer. DH knew all about it, although DH and I were still married and in a relationship I would often go spend the day/night with this other person.
DH was all OK with 'sharing' me with this other person. That's the bit that irks me. How OK DH was with it.

Now, this friend and I. Yes, he's attractive, but he's just not the kind of person I would be in a relationship with.

Being with that person (in the dream) felt completely different to being with DH (in the dream).

I often feel like DH and i are just living together, going through the motions.
Yes, there's love there, but i don't know how much of it is from me.

DH is putting in for a job in Mildura (3 hours away) it goes for 2-3 months. So I would be here while he lives in Mildura until the end of April. I'm due early July.

Do you think that is playing on my mind?

I don't often remember dreams, but this one was so vivid.

I'm happy with any replies I recieve and am willing to answer any questions you have. I just want to get to the bottom of this dream.

-Char

[Arcadia]

It seems like the 'newness' of the dream relationship is what was appealing to you...as you enjoyed the exciting falling in love phase with a person you don't really know.

Dh looking on suggests he is complicit in a problem in your relationship and is watching it happen...?

Do you feel he doesn't make an effort? That you know everything about each other, so the newness is gone?

[HotI]

I have strange 'sexy' type dreams when pregnant. maybe it is a hormonal thing?

[Charlotte91]

It seems like the 'newness' of the dream relationship is what was appealing to you...as you enjoyed the exciting falling in love phase with a person you don't really know.

Dh looking on suggests he is complicit in a problem in your relationship and is watching it happen...?

Do you feel he doesn't make an effort? That you know everything about each other, so the newness is gone?

Yeah, probably that... He doesn't make an effort at all, unless he's trying to get in my pants.
He knows everything about me, and I know everything about him.