Just wondering if anyone has found any link or info about negative energies being drawn to people that are in a weak state of mind ie depressed, anxious etc...and then those energies sticking around and holding that person back from getting better?
Sometimes I feel like i'm clost to pulling away from this awful place i've found myself in but it feels like i'm always being pulled back, and so much stronger. I just want to break away....to finish with it all for good (the depression).
Does this even make sense? Is it even possible that it's negative spirits/beings/something around me thats holding me back?
I have a reading on Sunday so i'll talk to her but I wanted some thoughts??
I think it can but it also depends on how you as a soul deals with it. when i was getting out of it I felt guilty that I was feeling better and would send myself back does that make sense? But if you project positivity you should receive it back. So that means surrounding yourself with lots of love!
Big hugs hun I wish I could be there for you more x
Totally get you, I do feel guilty abuout getting better...wtf is that about? also I can't stand the idea of someone saying to me...you look so much better or sound so much better, almost like then i'm failing at something else...crazy.
Bring on Sunday...
Yes they can be attracted to a depressed person because that person is pulling them towards themselves with their state of mind. They can sense the chink and latch on. What needs to be done is the chinks need to be armoured up so there is nothing to hold onto, even if it is totally fake it until you make it, it does help.
Will post more when I get home from work tonight. I'll pull a couple of books out and post some info.
I have always been a firm believer that a person attract what they project (energy wise). So a person that projects alot of negative thoughts usually has alot of negativity around them. I have been in this rut many a time...unfortunately.
I believe that 'something' can only hold on to you and prolong recovery (or cause depression) if you let them- if you give 'it' that power ITMS. Mind over matter.
"Thoughts are like boomerangs...they come back to you"...an important mantra I think.
"like attracts like", so to as sopdet says, fake it till you make it, if that works for you. I know how easy it is to fall back into those cosy dark holes, but I saw the brighter sunshine that was outside it and wanted that more. Yes, often it is easier to feel sad and blue, because lets face it, we feel less guilty then, but there should be no guilt attached to your happiness. Those negative energies or forces do drain you and are attracted to you and what unguarded positiveness you muster.
As I explained to a friend of mine that I used to work with, who was on ad's/anxiety meds, find your sunshine. Not necessarily a tropical paradise (if that's an ideal place you would love to be), but something that makes you feel the same way, such as job, home, suburb or town you live in, new skills, and the people you surround yourself with. Often some 'friends' are like poison, and they draw on whqt positive energy you may have, leaving you feeling even more drained than before. It is possible to learn who these people are, but you should learn to protect yourself from these draining energies (spirits and people).
I am freeing myself of a poisonous place and group of people, a journey I am trying to expedite as I need to relay messages for someone who has just past. The mental relief of being rid of a place like that is terrific, yet, when I was in the process of it, I almost felt sad for doing it, probably because, as I said above, its just easier to fall into those dark places, rather than sunshine.
When I was suffering from depression I felt guilty when I started feeling better because I didn't actually believe I was worthy of feeling good. What helped me was not going to a psychologist for depression (I tried a few but they never helped) but going to a counsellor who specialised in self-esteem. It really made me see clearly how I treat myself and why I deserve better, and why it was ok to be me. I don't know if that is similar to how you are feeling or not but you do deserve to enjoy life and be happy.
Thank you so much for your replies guys. It does, all make sense.
I saw a lady today for an angel reading and she said some pretty incredible things and I drew some amazing cards. She said I am very receptive to spirits and energies and that Ii have to protect myself or else negative spirits will attach to me. So she said to surround myself in royal purple bubble.
A lot of other things as well...it was a fantastic experience and she has lent me a couple of boooks to read...
Just struggling a bit with her use of "god" and the angels and heavven as i'm not sure I believe in heaven and god as such....
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