Hi girls
After baby number two sex was really good for a while and everything felt ok. Lately I have been feeling like I'm not as tight down stairs. I don't know if I am or I'm just being paranoid. I have a large partner and he says it feels different but not loose but I can't help but feel something isn't right. I don't really feel him sometimes.

I don't know if maybe his erection isn't as hard as usual or I'm looser.

I practise kegel exercises and I can stop my wee midstream. I have seen kegel exercise balls etc and I'm thinking of trying them.

Have you noticed a difference after doing exercises or using kegel aids.