thread: 2 Miscarriages and starting to lose hope

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    62

    Unhappy 2 Miscarriages and starting to lose hope

    Hi there,
    I have not been in this forum for a very long time but thought I could chat to others that may have been or are in the same situation as myself.
    I have a beautiful DD who is 3 and we had no problems with that pregnancy, since having her we started TTC about a year ago now and have had 2 miscarriages (both early) and am now paranoid it will happen again and almost too scared to try!
    Has anyone gone onto have healthy pregnancies after having 2 or more miscarriages?
    I need some hope.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
    5,301

    I am so sorry for your losses Booties. I too have had two losses before I had my forever babes. I felt similarly to you, and was not confident with my pregnancy until after I could feel bubs moving. But I went on to have 3 beautiful children with no issues during my pregnancies. Have you spoken to your doctor at all to see if they would recommend any kinds of treatment?

    Be kind to yourself, and go gently.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    Hugs it's so hard. I had 3 mc before having my DD who is now 5 months old.
    I hope your next pregnancy is a sticky bub.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2013
    Geelong
    1,364

    Hug booties, I can relate to your fear. Exhb & I had DD (now 12) with no problems conceiving or carrying & then when we TTC again we had 2 m/c.
    Now I am re partnered & we started TTC during my feb cycle after being on the pill & we conceived in April but lost at 4wks. I am happy to say we fell pregnant again straight away (not sure how but anyway ) and I am now 11 weeks. Every few days I become filled with fear that something will go wrong & it is draining & nerve wracking. But one day at a time I have found the support on BB to be very beneficial.

    Good luck with your journey & I hope you have a success story to share with us soon.

  5. #5
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    I had three mc and a chemical preg, now have a 6th old DD, don't lose faith but get blood tests in case there is a reason x