Monstas diagnosis...
BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS WITH FRONTAL LOBE INJURY

One of the specific behavior deficits following frontal lobe damage is attention disorder, patients showing distractibility and poor attention. They present with poor memory, sometimes referred to as "forgetting to remember." The thinking of patients with frontal lobe injury tends to be concrete, and they may show perseveration and stereotypy of their responses. The perseveration, with inability to switch from one line of thinking to another, leads to difficulties with arithmetic calculations, such as serial sevens or carryover subtraction.

Next step- Clinical pscycologists.
They wont medicate until all else fails
She may be on the Spectrum but not enough for a full diagnosis.

Feels great to have answers.