Thanks Christy - OMG board games Xander will play monopoly all day but I just don't have the patience as he wants us to sit and play all day too. So I have to admit I hide them I wish I had the dedication and patience he has.

I might try writing out the structure and seeing if he is happy to spend some time independently if he can pick what to do etc. Most of his favourite things involve some sort of screen and I feel terrible but everything else I try and encourage him to do lasts all of two minutes before he is hammering on about pokemon again.