The abuse is from the meltdowns. I am his safe zone so he takes it out on me. He isn't abusive as such. Im just his punching bag. I believe he has ODD also. I am open to the idea of a comorbid Dx of ADHD & Aspie but they seemed to ignore the aspie side when talking about it all. Like its completely off the radar that he is. One of the concerns also raised by his OT is that he is Bipolar & again that wasn't even mentioned (other then by me).

I don't want to look at it as if its just ADHD. I honestly don't think it is