Thank you for your replys. I met the Kinder teacher yesterday and she is lovely and I am going back tomorrow after meeting with DDs early intervention coordinator today. The nappies are not a problem, I discussed this with the kinder a while back and they are completely supportive ( I only live 5 doors down so it wouldn't be any issue anyway).

I think it would be outside that is the issue, inside it will be simple things like opening her lunch box/drink. They will already watch things like scissor use etc.

Thanks again, DH and I have discussed it a lot this past week and we are going to just see how it goes, if she doesn't cope we can stop