Cos we live in a world where people think they can control everything, and if you have all the tests and follow the dr you will be all ok. And for many people, this works and therefore they can attribute this to having the right scans and eating the right things and having/not having induction/vag birth/c section/immunisation/not immunisation/breast/formula feeding with extra vitamin x.......

You can't control everything. Sometimes stuff just happens. It is the way you deal with the 'stuff' that influences how your life will live.

Why live in fear before the stuff happens, because it might not be as bad if it ever does happen to you.