Ok from what I understand, BLS is about letting the baby decide what she eats, by placing a variety of finger foods on her plate, rather than shoving spoonfuls of mash into her mouth.
I've been offering all kinds of veges in chip shapes for about 10 days, none of which even nears her mouth, but that's ok, I know it takes time.

BUT today I allowed DH to let her taste some pumpkin soup off his spoon and she loved it and kept grabbing at the spoon for more. As this was restaurant soup, not home made, I didn't let her taste any more, but if this was at home, am I meant to let her have more?

I'm just really confused about the reasons why to avoid spoon feeding, especially when she seems so keen?