i use rusks with all 3, but only as a teether if it or something frozen dosent help, then i will resort to bonjella, i dont see it as more then a teething relife, my 4yo has recently discovered they are yummy, so finnishes what his sister dosent! we also use tthe rafertys range.
as for food, y bother comparing? every child is diffrent, in my opinon sitting arround comparing what your child eats to where others kids are at, is mums trying to have a competition. ive only just started including my daughter in family meals (she is 8 months today, oh wow!) only this week ive let her have chunks of meat, witch she now likes more then the veggies, whoops!