I had a middle name picked out for my DS1, it was just a name I'd always liked, it was also the middle name of my step-brother & my step-dad, although neither of them really came into mind when I picked the name. As I said, I had always liked it. DS1 ended up being born on step-brother's birthday... I felt it was too much having the same b'day and same middle name, so I ditched the name and poor DS1 was never given a middle name.

Fast forward 12 months and DS2 comes along. DS1 didn't have a middle name, so the decision to not give DS2 a middle name was easy.

Now we're picking a name for bubba #3, our first girl, due in a few weeks. I want to give her a middle name. There is a family name I want to use. Seems wrong to give her a middle name when the boys don't have one?? I'm now thinking is it too late to have my boys' names changed to include a middle name? There are two family names I've picked out for them.

Has anyone changed/added to their kids name this late in the game??