OK started a new thread so a bit easier for people to read.
I have a 10mth old DD who's name is AVA LILLY we are due to have #2 in Jan and needed names.

I liked the following but these are out:
Isabelle - cousin just used this as her DD2's middle name
Charlotte - DP doesn't like

DP suggested ZARA and i didn't mind this, still need some middle name ideas.

He has now suggested that he likes ELLA... i LOVE this name but a friend has a little girl who's about 4mths and her name is ELLA, she lives 2hrs away, we don't see her often and she is more a family friend than a personal friend.
Would it be rude to use this name? I have sent her a msg on FB and asked if she would mind.. it's not set in stone but don't want to offend anyone...

OK so i need some suggestions for middle names to go with ELLA and ZARA and possibly still some ideas on first names... i know i'm asking a lot but i am sick of calling her #2.. she's going to get a complex.

ELLA .......
ZARA .......
????????

Thanks in advance