My mum made me a Mei Tai and it hurts. Maybe it's because I'm used to the HAB we made being stretchy and so comfy that it is so noticeable. We used a canvassy type material and James sits in it beautifully and sleeps but I just can't seem to get it comfy. Any tricks or ideas?? It's mainly my shoulders and I have tried tying it really tight because he is so heavy and I want him snug on me so the weight isn't pulling forwards but it still seems to pull. He is over 5kgs, I'd hate to use it when he is getting close to double that.
It's a PITA too because it is getting warmer ( Melbourne - it's meant to be summer) and I want to use it instead of the HAB when it's hot.
Any ideas???