Well I've been researching all of those for a while (cough cough) this morning....thanks for all the suggestions. TC can you PM me the name of the group please? I've bee searching but can't find anything.

I think a sling is better for us than a wrap. All that material makes me feel hot thinking about it.
The breeze is exactly what I need in theory....but it's kinda boring.
The ellaroos are ok and the padded rails are a plus, but I'm not sure DH would wear any of them.

Any one have a Sakura Bloom? They're made of linen. Bit more exxie and not padded. Pretty sure I'll go with that.