when i first put DD2 into the ergo she was really low and pretty much all of her head was underneath the material. the second time i put her in her head popped out the top. i dont know what i did differently or which was is the correct way to use it.

also, i just googled some pictures of ergo in use and one of the pics is of a baby inside the ergo but its legs are not hanging out either side. is this a safe and ok way to use the ergo? cause i do feel that DD2's legs are getting stretched pretty wide apart.

also, in another pic they had both of the babys legs coming out the same side.. i think in a breastfeeding position. would that be right?

oh, and where are their hands supposed to be? cause when i put DD2 in with her legs spread around me her arms and hands just seem to hang down and are sorta level with the inside of the arm straps. its kinda like she is pinned down.. am i doing someting wrong there?