neenee my very plus size hubby can wear a 4.5m wrap no worries and he can also use the close carrier no worries.

Inertia if you are looking for cheap and are not sure about wraps what I did was go to spotlight and buy 5m of cotton jersey for about 40 bucks, this will make two wraps cause you cut it in half length ways. It's a great way to learn how to wrap and try it out for not much outlay. Once I decided I loved it I then went out and got myself a more expensive european woven wrap which is just so comfortable now that bub is getting bigger.