sounds like you have a very clever little Miss there

I think the trial outings you have planned will be your best bet. I know how you feel being anxious about leaving her! She sounds exactly like my DD2. I had to go interstate for 4 days last November and I was so worried about her, but it turned out to be a good thing. She is still very much a mummas girl, but if I'm not around I do know that she will go to other ppl, even if it is sometimes under duress . Good luck hun