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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    Unhappy 8 month old cot antics..

    so miss 8.5 months has discovered sitting up in her cot, turning around, getting caught in the bars etc... most of this them equal screaming, non stop screaming! the only way i could get her to have sleeps yesterday was to lie down with her in our bed and feed her, i dont like to do this and not keen to continue it at all, not when i have a 3 yr old as well. i know im not the only one to have these sort of issues but help pleasssssssssse, tell me it wont last long
    i feel also that some of it is related to seperation anxiety as she needs to be attactched to me at all times sitting next to me isnt the same as on me apparently
    im worried abouot starting bad habits such as feeding in bed and wearing her in a sling, that make me a little anxious that i wont be able to break the habit.
    anyone have an advice???

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
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    I'm probably not a huge amount of help as we still wrap and cuddle Sam to sleep before he goes in the cot...

    He did decide around the same age that he would thoroughly explore his cot, before this he would wake up in the same spot you put him down and just not move at all. We found that the air wrap cot bumper helped a huge amount with him getting arms and legs stuck in the bars. We've recently rearranged his room as he would love to stick his arms out and play with the cords for the monitor, so it didn't stop deliberate actions, but it did stop the getting stuck thing.

    I wish I could help more, but I think that's all I've got.

    BW

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    thanks BW!! might look into the airwrap as well!!
    shes asleep down the bottom of the cot sideways but at least shes alseep!

  4. #4
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    Dec 2005
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    I've found Sam like that plenty of times! He was just starting to be able to go into the cot awake and put himself to sleep sometimes... and then we had to lower the cot matress so we're back to square one again.

    BW

  5. #5
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    Feb 2009
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    All I can say is thank god im not alone! Our Little Miss has turned into a terrible sleeper over the last few weeks. We are back to co-sleeping full time and although trying everything that we can think of cuddles and keeping her close are the only ways to get her to drift off.

    Have you noticed a change to day sleeps as well or just night ones?

    Here I was thinking that by 8 months she might actually sleep through the night! Hope your little one gives you some peace

  6. #6
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    Mar 2007
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    ugh I have no advice, same situation here! I hear her rolling around and then banging into the side of the cot and then she wakes up and cries.

    And ikwym about the separation anxiety. I can be right next to her cuddling her but no she needs to be on top of me, pmsl.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    team mk, day sleeps as of yesterday are worse! she went down last night only because DH gave her a bottle of EBM (after i had already fed her) and i went to the supermarket! only woke once and resettled fine *phew* so far today hasnt been as bad as yesterday, will see what the remainder of the day brings though!

    sara the girls sound the same! i hope they figure out that moving in the cot is ok!

  8. #8
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    Dec 2006
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    I found that a sleeping bag helped with getting arms and legs stuck... And made it harder for DS to crawl in the cot too... He has since overcome that and can run and jump in the bag, but at 8m it was a good help...

  9. #9
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    Feb 2005
    Sydney
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    We went through this with Tara too, we put her in a seeping bag it stopped all the issues and she sleeping so much better!

  10. #10
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    Sep 2005
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    Oooh just subscribing...Nate co-sleeps usually and is such an acrobat that any contact with the cot has his a screaming heap.
    He has learnt to sit himself up too and won't be laid back down...