thanks Onyx, I've only just started using a baby shampoo, and I'm going to stop rinsing it with the soapy bath water every night and just wash it with the shampoo once a week instead. He still has baby hair on the top, the sides are fine but the top just looks like such a mess. Just fuzz that sticks out everywhere. I'm tempted to cut it off actually but it looks so nice when its curly from being wet so that stops me. I'll have to start using the leave in conditioner when he's a bit older, great idea thank you.