Nope, definitely not alone Look, it's tough. It's tough because sleep deprivation and a baby that doesn't sleep is pure hell, and from that stems a LOT of jealousy and judgement from those who don't have a 'good' sleeper. I've been on both sides of the coin. DD1 slept like an angel, by 6 weeks she was sleeping 6 hours at night, by 3 months it was 12 hours. She kept that up until she started teething at about 6 or 7 months. After that? Well, she's never slept a full night again, and there have been blocks of time, months and months, where it would take 3 or 4 hours of full on screaming and crying to get her to sleep. We tried everything bar CIO. Now she's getting there, but still a long way to go. I truly believed, when she was about 9-11 months, that I would die from the lack of sleep, the stress. It was so hard.

Now DD2 is pretty much the same as DD1. She'll sleep all night. She's just cut her first tooth at 4.5 months, and her sleep is a bit all over the shop as a result. So DH and I are pretty much preparing for the worst with teething. Might be different, but at least we're prepared.

I don't think you should have to not speak about your baby because of how others feel. There was nothing worse when DD1 was little than when I'd be rapt she slept so well, and people would bring me down with stuff like "oh, that will change, enjoy it while it lasts" blah blah. It might change, but it may well not. Even when DD1 was waking every 45 minutes all night for months on end, I was still happy for people whose babies slept well. A bit jealous, but still perfectly able to say "hey, that is totally awesome! Good work there Baby!"