Thanks Sam - glad to hear that it is a phase!

I guess the issue really arises when DD1 needs a cuddle or comforting while DD2 is up. DD1 isn't good at waking up and needs cuddling to ease her into the day. She also needs comforting if she gets so much as a scratch (which is often) so if I try to do this DD2 loses it and will even bang her head on the floor in a mega-tanty (I ignore this too).