Hi

DS is 2 years old and in the last month he will not fall alseep on his own, he wants DH not me to put him to sleep, he doesnt want me (he yells at me that he doesnt want me), DH has to pat him and stay in his room until he falls alseep, I dont know how this all of a sudden got out of control. Is there anyway we can stop this? Or shall we just continue to do this and will it go away? It can take up to 45 minutes to get him to sleep. Also, he screams if we leave his room when he is still awake.

Now that is at night time.... within the last 7 days since putting him in daycare for 1 day a week, with not much scucess, he wont sleep during the day. When i put him down to sleep and i start to walk away he starts screaming.. and I mean screaming. It is so hard to listen to i get so upset and start crying because I dont know what to do... Is it daycare that has done this, sep anxiety? or is it a part of 2 year old dramas? Is it our fault that he is used to us patting him to sleep.. Does anyone know of any good methods, books, help that we can get or again so i just keep him up during the day and let this pass (if it is a phase)...

I would really appreciate your help..

Of course DH doesnt think its a problem that he has to pat him to sleep and also if he doesnt sleep during the day.. its ok he will sleep at night...

Plus he is having night terrors at the moment.. So all and all SLEEP is not good in our household. And with being 4 months pregnant i want it sorted before next bubba comes along.

Its sending me crazy Girls...