Thanks ladies. In the morning we brush at the same time but at night I do mine in the shower. I usually brush his as much as he will let me and then give him his toothbrush to do his own. I might let him have a go brushing mine, he sucks on my toothbrush when he in the shower with DH too.

Boomba I dont use much toothpaste. I figure since we dont have fluoride in the water up here it can't hurt him to swallow a little.