Caro I don't think anyone is saying someone is in the wrong for not taking their child out!

Be it right or wrong I took DD with me everywhere during her first few months, I found it a breeze to just take her everywhere with me when she was little. We'd go out for coffee and she's be tucked up in her pram sleeping. I loved visiting people with her, putting her in the baby carrier and going shopping. I'm not the kind of person that can stay at home too long or I go crazy!

Most of the time when we were taking her out at night was to spend time with family in and friends in the comfort and warmth of their homes with bubby snuggled up and being cuddled.