Just looked back on my post and I think I was a bit harsh. I just get annoyed with all the unnecessary worry that gets put on us as new mothers, as if having a baby isn't enough!?!?!?! Hope you don't take offence at my post?
No offence taken! And I agree with the unnecessary worry

Tan-He does like it a bit more when he is on his tummy across my knees so maybe I'll keep doing that!

Thank-you for your help everyone! Good to know I'm just a normal paranoid parent!!