Oh Black_rose, I totally get where you are coming from They are such honest little people.
My DS2 had recurring ear infections every winter and it was so tough on him and us.
The other thing that may help is panadol suppostries if she doesn't like the panadol taste. I think Antibiotics also can come in suppostries??? The AB's should kick in pretty much with an hour or two.
I hope your little girl is feeling better soon and you have a peaceful night