Well this thread makes me feel much better as my DS is in the same position. Actually I think he is doing slightly better as he will usually eat a big bowl of cereal for breakfast and a medium sized dinner. But we have more or less given up on lunch as well. IF he eats lunch it will be some cheese and puffed wheat cereal and maybe one of the cheesy mites breadsticks. If I'm really really lucky he'll eat a tub of yogurt - but that doesn't happen very often. I imagine he will probably get worse before he gets better but what has helped is we have started letting him feed himself with the spoon. It gets VERY messy but it seems to have resolved the temper tantrums for the time being. We will just take it one day at a time I guess.