I was out at a local cafe having a drink while feeding my 7 week old DD her afternoon bottle when one of the waitresses came up and started admiring DD and touching her on her head, tummy, arm and hand.
Im happy for people to chat with DD and I (I'm very social) but I don't like people touching her. Her immune system is still immature and I know it will strengthen with exposure (firstly to family and friends etc) but I'm still not comfortable with strangers touching her.

How would you tell someone not to touch your baby without being rude?