I have read lots of threads about everyones routines and I have tried and tried and tried to get my DD into one! She seems to be a random baby! Sometimes she will sleep for 4 hours sometimes 10 minutes sometimes no sleep at all! Feeding is the same sometimes hourly sometimes 5 hours between feeds and if i try to feed her when she dosent want it she wont have a bar of it! If i try to put her down when shes not ready for a sleep she will scream like "tantrum scream - the neighbour must think im hurting her" scream. Any suggestions on how to get a child into some sort of rythem? TIA for suggestions.