It seems lots of us have these feelings, for various reasons. I wonder if they'll ever go away or if I'll always be hugely overprotective of her?
My second daughter was not planned and I had some difficulties with her pregnancy (not in the sense your talking about) I was on medication for my neuropathy that my original GP insisted would cause abnormalities and insisted I terminate. Combined with the fact she shouldn't have been conceived as I was on contraception and then my medication I use to feel she wouldn't be strong enough to get through the next bit and I would loose her. Funnily enough that feeling faded when I had DD3 so maybe if you have another baby that feeling will be shifted on to it That's how it worked for me anyway