I know it's been done millions of times before but I need to vent or I'm going to lose my sh#%^t.

14 weeks old and I think in that time she had slept about 10 maybe 15hrs in her cot/bassinet/swing. Other then that its on me or next to me in my arms in bed.

I'm tired and cranky. I currently have her cot with one side off next to my bed trying to move her into that but still be close and she won't have a bar of it. Fusses and wakes within minutes. She could be in the deepest sleep and it still won't matter.
If I am lucky we may get one sleep cycle from her (45-60min)

Not to mention she is now also doing breast refusal. So close the bottle feeding and sending her to her grandparents for a night.

Sick and jealous reading/hearing about other babies younger then her sleeping through in their own rooms/beds.

She is by far my worst sleeper and DH is useless in the middle of the night sleeps through everything then wakes up complaining he only had a small amount of bed to sleep on. You know what I would take sleep on a small amount if bed rather then no sleep!!