DS used to eat EVERYTHING! Vegetables, fruit, yoghurt....he would try it all....
He suddenly decided though that he doesn't like anything green! Says he doesn't want to eat vegetables, yoghurt, fruit, all the good things....he doesn't want a bar of it. I offer them all the time, his dinners are laden with vegetables, but he picks/spits them out when he notices them. He doesn't want chicken, mince (spag)
BUT
He will eat raw salmon in sushi like it's going out of fashion. And sausages....and chips (home made...or otherwise!)
I know it's probably a phase, and I'm going to just keep offering him things till he eats them again, but does this happen to everyone around the 2.5 mark? If it has happened, how long does it take for them to get over it!? It's pretty annoying - I'm not one to prepare a different meal for him just because he's being a fussbag!
DD has gone though it recently & she is 2 next week. I just keep putting it on her plate, sometimes she eats it sometimes she doesnt. I find that if it is served the same way all the time she gets bored with it, so sometimes she will have sauce on her veg or if I make spag bol I puree a couple of cups of steamed veg &stir it through. I also have to give her dinner between 5 & 6 or she'll just play with it & not eat it.
DD#2 will eat her dinner if she gets to sit on dad's lap to eat it lol
Otherwise it just sits there, we leave it on the table and sometimes she'll come back later and finish it, sometimes not. Can't rush this dinner thing.
DD#1 is a shocking fusspot and often leaves half (or all of) her food and whenever she does that DD#2 will ignore her own dinner and come polish DD#1's off. Kids!
My DS is in that phase, one week he will eat everything then he won't. I try and limit the amount of 'crap' especially when he isn't eating much and just try and go with the flow. I refuse to fight at meal times. I still give him a plateful of veges everynight and sometimes it get's eaten and sometimes it doesn't. I figure eventually he will eat more as I was reading that around 2-3 they go through a stage where they don't eat much and don't like trying new things (or if they haven't had it in awhile) and then start to broaden then tastes again.
DD1 went through this at 20 months - all she would eat was plain cooked pasta (no sauce!). I got around it by getting ravioli with vegies inside so she would eat something a bit more nutritious! She would however eat at childcare and other people's houses so it seems to be more of a control thing. I would do a tasting plate with bits of everything eg cheese, vegies, fruit, pasta etc and she would pick and choose what she wanted from the plate. She eats most things again now though so the phase did pass.
This "phase" has been going on since DS was 14 months old and he's 3 next week with no signs of changing.
I'm not fighting it. Instead, I'm being more proactive. I'm making his chicken nuggets myself and adding goodies. I'm sprinkling wheat germ and honey on his natrual yoghurt. I'm making chocolate cupcakes with broccoli and zucchini in them.... all the time continuing to offer him fruit and vegies in their normal form.
We've had miniature sucesses.... a few months ago he ate a few pieces of apple, but that has since stopped. He also licks strawberries, and has chewed on them once or twice, but that's the extent of it.
His fussiness is the worst I have heard of. It did my head in to begin with, but I'm not turing food into a fight, and hoping that he one day changes his mind and decides to try things.
Here's hoping by his 4th birthday he at least tries pasta.
Food fussiness - Will it go away?
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