when DS was born i had my family and all the ILs living under the one roof for a week it was overwhelming by day 5 or 6 but the first few days were fine.

your her mummy and ur gonna no and do whats best for her. if u feel its a bit to much (for u both coz dont forget ull still be recovering aswell) im sure ur families will understand. having said that being a NB she will prob sleep the whole time and not even notice

hope you have a great xmas regardless of what u choose xx