Just wondering if your littlies go straight back to sleep after a feed at night?

DD (3 months) is up for 1 hour to 1.5 hours at night, if I try to put her to sleep before she's ready she'll scream the house down, and I have to rock her/nurse her to sleep, if not again she;ll scream the house down. I don't want to do this, but I get frustrated when I can't get back to sleep coz she wont settle, then I cry and it makes for one big horrible night... If I get sleep deprived I actually get quite frustrated and angry with her, which is why I let her get tired before attempting to put her to bed.

I'm not strong enough to do controlled cryig, but staying up that long at night is killing me. DD#1 never did this...

Any suggestions, advice, what did you do???