We get that too, the awake chat/story time. I went in the other night after an hour because we were all sick to see if I could settle her & she was reading a book to her doll, I gave her a kiss & walked back out. An hour later she fell asleep again.... I guess those nights are frustrating but not heartwrenching ykwim? Its the nights where they scream & are inconsolable that get my heart.